I watched an interesting video about a particular INFJ weakness, Apparently we have issues with our extroverted thinking, Te.- applying things to the real world. If we are to believe Hitler was an INFJ, he appeared to have no problem applying things in the real world, Maybe some INFJs are better off keeping things in their heads! For me whilst elements of this (issues with extroverted thinking) might be true, I don’t know how much more real you can become than surviving narcissists! I had a real world action plan.

When it came to friendships I know she spoke a lot of truth but you are kinda used to living with crumbs once you have been with a narcissist for any length of time. I am sometimes the one who just switches off, (Especially now I can be menopausal and crabby,) ;so I accept others may do the same.

I have nonetheless been given a few things to mull over!

Once I watched another video which explained Te, I found the video below straight forward and helpful!

Why Do INFJs End Up With Narcissists This woman is an ENTP. I like her blunt honesty, We I NFJs sometimes appreciate people who can snap us back to the real world!

Perhaps two weirdos together isn’t always a good thing!


Is it OK that I find my own type a bit much sometimes? My mum who is quite unlike me, always kept me grounded even if we don’t always get along.

I can accept most people as long as they don’t lie to me or manipulate!


I am lactose intolerant at the moment! It comes and goes, I was suspicious of the pesto I have been using. Delicious but very crazy looking but I have eaten it before and been fine, However I have been using a new brand of A2 milk and suspect that might be the culprit. Perhaps I have been overdoing all the wrong foods, However I have a strong suspicion it is the milk.

Prosecutions are soaring due to allergen labelling branches in the UK

Makes sense that there may be labelling issues here too at times. There are rather a lot of cows.


Classical Gas


Calls For Urgent Cuts in Methane Gas Emissions To Combat Global Warming – BBC News

The idea of them spotting Methane Gas Emissions from the air conjures up a few entertaining images,

Cow Farts & Climate Change

FART BLOOPERS I remember trying to get silence from a class once, only to have some poor boy loudly break wind. I did at least try to say, “it’s not funny.” before I rolled around laughing. Maybe my lactose intolerance is a humbling lesson from God for me!

Old Farts

Personally I think it is old farts (not cow farts)who are the biggest issue when it comes to climate change! I do realise that some older people are just as keen to fight climate change, To my mind age is an attitude not a number but I recently found some older people to be rather set in their ways.

I intend to put my timetable on the web ready for my old age, so that everyone knows exactly what they are allowed to do and when! My Schedule


I do realise rigidity can be a great coping strategy, Been there, done that but I always retained the ability to laugh at myself! I used to play “What will happen if I don”t adhere to a rigid timetable?”

I had to to cope with children and my ex’s demands! He did once admit after I got sick, that things had become a little rigid.


I shared a house with a former soldier once and got into trouble for showering outside my allowed time slot. I am not suggesting he was violent just rather rigid in his routines.

On a serious note when I researched it many years ago there was a big problem with domestic violence in the military, Evidently this has not changed.


Margaret Atwood on the Rise of Real World Authoritarians | Offline With …

She mentions the dictator’s favourite phrase,

“I alone can fix it!”

Narcissists want you to trust them and believe they have the solution to all the problems. This is considerably easier if their target is isolated. I would say the UK and the USA are extremely vulnerable right now to somebody, who comes along saying things like,

“I alone can fix it.”

Trust In Me

We all need to get behind countries which are struggling currently if we do not want to see The Handmaid’s Tale happening for real.

The Handmaid’s Tale Trailer

Iron Maiden – Run To The Hills (Official Video)

For all the teenage dirtbags!(especially the one I had encouraged to learn guitar) Yup sorry my bad!

He was also the first member of his family to get a passport!


His brother used to sing along to songs with his headphones on. I liked his musical taste, I told him off once for skateboarding on our driveway, He had also courageously once broken a bully’s nose at school!