Guilt trips are a sure sign of a toxic person. Hence gui.t tripping me is a complete waste of time,
If people deal with situations directly there should be no need for guilt trips.
Also there should be no need for narcissistic pile-ons if a person or cause is genuine. I only listen to those who approach me directly and do not need to assemble a gang.
Hiding behind a gang is pure cowardice but it appears to be the Australian way,
I can only assume that Australians did not used to be this way as they showed great courage in WW1 and WW2 when did so many of them degenerate into cowardly bullies?
Aside from my brother who is also a cowardly bully most of my circle in the UK used to deal with people directly. I hope cowardice is not a sign of the Times. Maybe you believe I am a coward for writing an anonymous blog but I am not attempting to destroy people just process my own feelings so that I am able to respond appropriately and if necessary take appropriate action!
I have never hidden that you should not mess with me but people as they usually do have totally ignored me!
If I have done something wrong have the courage to tell me directly. That is what I have always tried to do. I have never pretended to be nice. In fact I once wore a badge that announced that I was not nice after my ex attacked my daughter for “not being nice,”
I used to have revenge fantasies now if you f’with me, I will eventually tell you exactly what I think of you, Your mistake has been that you have all got away with your bullying behaviour unchallenged for so long that you thought you would never face consequences.
To me The sort of cowardly pettiness I have encountered is typified by the deliberate moving of a file or losing of my paperwork!
Also the guy who told the kids they did not want to be “WEAK CHRISTIANS” was a bully, I inadvertently narcissistically injured him.
PURELY AND SIMPLY I CONCLUDE BY SAYING YOU ARE A BUNCH OF COWARDLY BULLIES.
MANYNOF YOU FALL IN AND OUT OF FRIENDSHIPS LIKE 5 YEAR OLDS.
I HAVE NO INTENTION OF BEING NICE BUT I DO TRY TO BÈ AUTHENTIC!
I am done laying in front of the bulldozer.
I think I may start driving one instead!