Why Domestic Violence Victims Do Not Answer Their phones
We are used to being harassed!
You have no f’ing clue of our reality. Whichever way we turn we can all wind up dead and most galling of all, it is still likely that somebody will justify their behaviour. I actually hate them more than him.
I used to think if one more person calls him “a good bloke”… They are good blokes to everyone else. Running around to get medicine for neighbours but leaving you to beg and plead for help. The good news is they will undergo a complete character transformation during divorce. In my experience he was suddenly taking them to doctors, opticians etc with amazing enthusiasm. You suddenly become the one who never met the children’s needs and neglected them. I was screaming for help when our son had first had pneumonia. From memory I had been dismissed. I was running backwards and forwards to the payphone pleading for my ex to come to the hospital when our son had anaphyllaxis.
Yeah his little mob of sympathisers p#ss me off big time.
Yet he would smilingly do anything for anyone else. I actually watched The Perfect Mother with envy because at least she could call for her husband to help her. I was never allowed to ask for help.
I had our answering machine answer all my calls once we separated. I told all the people I cared about that they would have to leave a message and I would get back to them.
Nobody who cares calls me without identifying themselves and /,or leaving a message!
TO HEAR MY LATEST ANSWERPHONE MESSAGE PLEASE PUSH BUTTON.
A woman I had started talking to in my old home also from memory dealing with domestic violence used to screen her calls so I know it is not just me who is careful about answering the phone. Sometimes one phone call is all it takes to zombify somebody or as in the case of one American politician. One game of golf.
I am beginning to see why some places don’t have baths. Dolores O’riordan drowned in the bath as did Whitney Huston and the young girl who had been abused.
When we had a spate of women drowning in the bath in the UK there was found to be a serial killer at work.
Recently I have become slightly concerned about a woman who has mysteriously fallen down the stairs and died.
Sometimes monsters can look as innocent as the girl or guy next door”
“God will get them.:”
It is interesting that several women who have won epic legal battles have died mysteriously.