Jacqui Lambie is by far my favourite Australian political figure. Whether I agree with her or not she speaks from the heart.
Women need to support one another regardless of their personal, professional or political differences. Jacqui has been to Hell and back. I watched a fantastic Australian Story about her. She went through a long period of despair and unemployment following being invalided out of the military. She had at least one lengthy stay in a mental hospital.
I have been through the court system first because of my abuse and then due to my nightmare of my divorce. I stuck my marriage out for so long because I believed I would be unlikely to win a custody battle and our children would have been left in danger. I personally knew of children who had been sexually abused ( sexual abuse was not an issue with my ex,) who had been forced into repeated contact with their abuser. Jacquie Lambie Talks About Fanily Court Being Abolished by The Government.
Whenever my ex was triggered the children would have been in real danger. There was also a sexual predator lurking in the background. Once children have been assaulted that is it. It is extremely hard to fix the damage done. Not infrequently such children end up lost in the system. where It is unlikely a. judge will patiently listens to a child’s viewpoint on custody matters. A narcissist’s skill at parental alienation tends to mean that the non-,toxic parent is in the battle of their lives. I have met battered women who have lost custody of their children to an abuser. Why would full custody be awarded to somebody who has regularly assaulted their partner? I know that to me that said that what he did to me was of no importance. My ex had an army of people ready to believe his bull. He still does have. I had nobody. I had to attend court alone.
Letter From A Woman Who Has Lost Her Children to Parental Alienation
I am proud of the fact that both.our children still love their father. My line has usually been that they can love us both despite our flaws. I have tried to face the things I may have done wrong. They have got exasperated with me at times for worrying about what I may have done wrong. I can see where he has already been chipping away at their reality but I did what I set out to do. I gave them a choice and a mind of their own. I can do no more.
if You Love Somebody Set Them Free.
Soloman’s Famous Judgement