I had been seeing a trainee accountant for a couple of months as a friend when I met my ex. I had not had so much as a phone call in a couple of months when I had met my ex. My accountant friend rang me out of the blue. I had begun dating my ex by that time. I knew I should break up in person so we caught up for a drink. The only time I broke up with a guy. He was quite upset.
Looking at it now he was a Jerk for assuming I belonged to him and that he didn’t have to make any effort to stay in touch.