Back To The Drawing Board

I love watching people’s little brains work.

Boy are labels popular these days.  In their jealousy and haste to label they are borderline abusive.  Why not label men a little more and women a little less.

I have finally begun to understand women don’t like me because they are just plain jealous. I actually like men and enjoy their company. I am a secret nerd. I will watch men’s shows. I am interested in what they have to say. I am always striving to learn. I don’t think I know everything already.

Don’t  Put Labels On People

I loved Suddenly 30. I used it to try and teach my daughter to value her male friends. I often wondered if I had ever treated a guy like Jenna did on her 13th birthday and did not want her to repeat my mistakes. I have tried to encourage her to marry her best friend one day…I love Safiyah Ngaard , she and her husband seem like best mates.

Somebody has a huge chip on their shoulders about stolen chips/potato fries. Reminds me of Joey on Friends. “ I don’t share chocolate. My best friend has never stopped complaining about me eating a 200g bar of chocolate and not sharing a single piece. Come between me and chocolate you just might lose a limb.

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Matt & Jenna Reunion

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It makes me think of one of the guys at secondary school. I always liked him but he never seemed interested that way. I had a massive crush on him. He probably witnessed me wearing the bin bag. He had a terrific sense of humour and lovely kind eyes. He just did not seem to see me like that.  I gave up. I can still see him tipping his chair. (You don’t get to put this one on me. For me at the time, even shy as I was, I gave it my all.) He always tipped his chair and hid in his cubicle. I told you I always liked the shy ones. I prefer Phoebe and Mike on Friends to Ross and Rachel. I love Mike’s sense of humour.

He handles her eccentricities perfectly… I always identified with Phoebe most. I remember her hassles over trying to return some shoes. I had our finances scrutinised as much as I could by my lawyer, as I did not trust him not to leave booby traps for me. You will not drive me out of this flat. I paid for it with my blood, sweat and tears (literally).

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I decided in the end I needed somebody outgoing and my blog tells you just how well that has worked out for me…

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We Didn’t Start The Fire -Billy Joel

I have some difficulties myself,, which I was born with. I confess that I have found  things frustrating at times but these days I understand  that without my difficulties,  I probably would not have my strengths. It scares me to think that I too might have been unkind lacking in empathy as many of the people  in this world.  (,There can be no greater disability. I do know that one of my biggest regrets was the time I let myself beCaught In The Crowd by Kate Miller Heidke but then I was barely five years old. Some people spend a lifetime never learning  that lesson. Yet I never let the bullying I have received over the years turn me into somebody who might behave the same way. I hope I used my own experiences to make me a better person. I grew out of that type of behaviour at five years old.

I use 2 labels:

1: Not an A’hole

2:A’hole- People whose inner beast is allowed to run the show.

I’ll let you guess in which category many

politicians and celebrities sit.

You Can Take Me Anyway You Want Me -Bread

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So there you have it, my big secret. I have been secretly in love with a right winger/ possible Nazi for decades.

Told you I was pretty boring… Don’t tell my youngsters. I am supposed to be horrified by right wingers. It would ruin my street cred…

😆 Like I ever had any.

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