The Nightmare of Divorcing A Narcissist

I have chosen not to write about this till now. However under severe provocation I have decided to tell something of the nightmare you may experience should you dare to divorce a narcissist and their family.

Make no mistake about it you are likely to discover that you are dealing with their  entire coterie when you embark on divorcing the narcissist.  There is likely to be all manner of  financial and other shenanigans you may have to face. I turned a blind eye to most of it.  Perhaps this was a mistake on my part, as it seems to have been considered a sign of weakness, which has then led to ongoing harassment.

The shifting of finances around; the massaging of figures. You name it. They will get up to it. Not forgetting the deliberate denigration of you on social media. Some may even take it as far as hiring a hit.

Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap – ACDC

With thanks to the car that drove by me, while blasting this song, as I walked alongside the beach one day, for reminding me of this tune for my blog..

I have spoken to professionals who confirm this type of behaviour. Failing that they will try to drive you insane and then point out to all and sundry what a terrible parent you are.

So strap yourself in  if you are divorcing a narcissist, it is likely to be a wild ride.

I was once told I didn’t know who my friends were, which is absolutely true when you are dealing with narcissists, you learn to trust nobody.

Still bear in mind The Only Way Is Up Once you have successfully broken away from a narcissistically abusive relationship.


Thank You For Being A Friend

As for me, as the narcissist (also see Jezebel Spirit) employs new tactics, I will keep you posted, which makes it a win-win situation.  I mean so far he has inadvertently helped me to remember the love of my life and why I am definitely not interested in others. This gives me peace no matter what else he tries. 🙏

Confronting The Jezebel Spirit (Link below)


Source: AC/DC

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