Not too long ago, with great sadness in my heart, I wrote the above post. Today I write a follow-up, for those of you facing loss, as you seek to escape a narcissistic relationship. I have a new garden now. It is tiny and it is in pots but I have something else too. I have a pretty and interesting view. I still enjoy my mini garden with my morning coffee and after a few false starts, it still brings me joy.