Escaping from narcissistic abuse is a journey. We are all at different stages in our recovery. It is like we survivors have been stuck in The Land of The Lotus Eaters with Percy Jackson and have now woken up. Some of us may have been trapped there going round in circles longer than others but we are all gradually being drawn out and set free to finally find each other. Happy New Year to my fellow survivors whose blogs and videos etc have helped light the way for me.