You soon realise with narcissistic abuse almost nobody gets it. When you try to explain what these toxic organisms get up to, even the normally most supportive of people can start scratching their heads in disbelief. So much of it makes absolutely no sense whatsoever to the untrained observer. Very few generally stay the course with you. Only those who have experienced it themselves, understand it. Narcissistic abuse is like a constantly dripping tap, that no plumber can ever fix. It goes quiet for a while then the drip drip drip starts all over again.
To get the full effect I recommend clicking on the link and listening to the sound, whilst watching the tap.