Enabling

Even though(or perhaps because) I have inadvertantly  at times been one myself, my ire has always been more directed at enablers than at  toxic people. It is one thing to do the wrong thing because we don’t know any better, it is quite another to know something is wrong and  to go along with it […]

Genealogy

I think it is very hard to be a genealogist and remain narrow-minded. As soon as you assume something, up pops a relative to  challenge or disprove your assumption. I am almost scared to say anything  these days because I know the minute I do, a long forgotten ancestor will suddenly appear, who will remind […]